The only thing worse than being married to a narcissist, divorcing a narcissist. So, it is critical you map out a strategy with an Oklahoma family lawyer as soon as you anticpate to leave the turkey head. 

Narcissist are known for making divorces very painful and expensive.  When a marriage with a narcissist is ending, the narcissist is deperate to maintain control. They typically, lie, manipulate others, attempt to bribe children to make themselve the more favorable parent. Narcissist are often very financially sucessful and difficult to negotiate with. But, with careful planning, and assistance from an attorney experienced in handling divorcing a narcissist, you can be prepared to help you come out on top.

• Change passwords on social media, email to limit availability to information about yourself available to the narcissist.
• Get copies of as much financial information as possible before filing for divorce.
• Find a counselor and good support network to help you while the divorce is ongoing.
• Limit contact with the narcissist as much as possible after filing.
• Narcissist hate to lose, which can be used to your advantage in negotiations with narcissist.
• Start identifying your big picture goals and expectations of the divorce early.

Work with an experienced family law attorney that has experience with narcissist tactics.

Hayes Legal Solutions, PLLC is here to help you fight your war against the narcissist. Call 405-635-5578 to set up a strategy session.