The only thing worse than marrying a narcissist, is divorcing one.  Narcissist are known for dragging out divorce and making it as painful as possible on their spouse.  For better or worse, narcissistic love all the attention, whether it is positive or negative.  

Narcissist also are known to use the following tactics to make their spouse miserable during the process:

• Avoid service- hide from process servers and refuse to waive service.
• Hide funds.
• Drag out the divorce, by asking for continuances and/or filing excessive motions.
• Strategically try to make the other spouse so miserable, they give up.
• Push you to settle too quickly.
• Threaten to take everything.
• Reflect what they have done wrong on to you. 
• Hide financial information.
• Deplete Funds

Best recommendation for divorcing a Narcissist, have a good family lawyer and counselor to help you with the emotional heartache and additional drama the narcissist will create. At Hayes Legal Solutions, PLLC we like to meet with clients early in the divorce process to develop a strategy on how to outsmart a narcissist and take away opportunities for them add drama to the dissolution of marriage.   Call Hayes Legal Solutions, PLLC at 405-635-5578 o set up a strategy session.